tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post6060176575256047750..comments2023-03-25T09:28:24.583+01:00Comments on the life & times of Mrs No Soul: Tanya's StoryMrs No Soulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10599550945159148745noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-7572316448978143742009-04-14T08:37:00.000+01:002009-04-14T08:37:00.000+01:00Anon April 10 9.15pm i agree.
all these people tel...Anon April 10 9.15pm i agree.<br />all these people telling her to leave... she has to decide for herself and the kids by herself. cos in the end no off u people tellinh her "not to live a lie" will be there for her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-36169524108765814282009-04-10T20:51:00.000+01:002009-04-10T20:51:00.000+01:00Each person NEEDS to know why they get into a marr...Each person NEEDS to know why they get into a marriage and what would make they get out if it. The answer for this is going to be different for everyone. Decide what your values are and what you would like in your future and stick with it. All decisions have consequences. For example, the boys growing up with thier dad may mean that they learn that it is ok for men (thier dad) to sleep with housegirls and women should learn to live with it (after all, thier mum did). However, if they grwo up without thier dad in the house, they may not have real role models and create one off the media. No one can tell Tanya what to do. Tanya needs to decide for herslef what is truly important to her, what she can live with and what she can live without.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-47554563192529540652009-04-10T19:14:00.000+01:002009-04-10T19:14:00.000+01:00I'm in totaly shock. I'mvery much in support of t...I'm in totaly shock. I'mvery much in support of them getting a divorce. The fact he can stoop as low as having sex with the maids. uhn-hun. Now 2 wrongs dont make a right but there is too much water under the bridge.<BR/><BR/>I sympathize with her and at the same time i dont cos she CLEARLY knew before getting married what type of guy he was. Why she felt she was so special that he'd change his ways becos of her..........is beyond me.<BR/><BR/>Mrs NO- i totally believe this marriage thing is not easy at all but i want to believe there are some folks that do have a good marriage. In the Naija culture- u sef will know that being single can be challenging- check out my 2nd blog http://thecounselorandherthots.blogspot.com/2009/02/singles-through-eyes-of-church.html<BR/><BR/>Then again if not for Christianity i probably wont get married- just have a partner.Tigeresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17004116586549466667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-88995499433447597422009-04-04T10:09:00.000+01:002009-04-04T10:09:00.000+01:00@ Jaguda- you're defitely right- but I find single...@ Jaguda- you're defitely right- but I find single women soooo lucky- until they complicate their lives by become a Mrs....Mrs No Soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10599550945159148745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-74147973076906781842009-04-01T20:42:00.000+01:002009-04-01T20:42:00.000+01:00a single woman's perspective will always be differ...a single woman's perspective will always be different from the married ones. its easier for a single woman to say go....but till u are there dont be quick to give advice. it is a tough decision and must be weighed properly. remember that when a marriage breaks up the kids are also affected....may even end up hating u. that said it has to be thought overJagudahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17716218043798657772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-80649637046533836702009-03-25T17:51:00.000+01:002009-03-25T17:51:00.000+01:00@ sexwriter- Tanya is a very successful woman in h...@ sexwriter- Tanya is a very successful woman in her field of work and quite frankly does not need the security based on material needs. where she stands is pretty clear right now- she wants out!<BR/><BR/>@ Jayla- we honestly have no idea whether he is still shagging househelps around but one thing is for sure- he has not been celibate for 6yrs +.<BR/><BR/>@ Afrobabe & Temite, there ae sooo may things happening out there and trust me, I hear and have seen so so much. I will share all, as we go along.<BR/><BR/>@ scribble mefree- I did read your post- thanks for directing me to it. I talked about staying for the kids because they are boys and are really close to their dad.<BR/><BR/>@ Chari- infidelity is NOT the only condition for divorce- where does 'getting battered fit in?- we'll get to that abother time.<BR/><BR/>@ Qube- divorce is certainly a messy affair- no matter what angle you look at it from especially when there are children involved.<BR/><BR/>@ Buttercup- her affairs are the one thing she regrets however, according to her- in her mind she really is not cheating on her hubby because their relationship is dead!<BR/><BR/>Thank you for all the comments, I will bring any updates to your notice for sure. This is one tough decision, I tell you.. marriage truly is overrated.Mrs No Soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10599550945159148745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-30410491472454051672009-03-24T23:24:00.000+01:002009-03-24T23:24:00.000+01:00oh wow..im sorry but what is the point of holding ...oh wow..im sorry but what is the point of holding on if he so obviously has no regard for her and their marriage???? to hell with protecting the name..of what use is having a good image if one isnt happy??? and her having affairs too has just made things messy but thank God she doesnt want to continue..<BR/><BR/>its a really sad situation..Buttercuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00182390815082496865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-1322796748972960732009-03-24T18:29:00.000+01:002009-03-24T18:29:00.000+01:00Welcome to blogsvilleHmnn this is tricky ooh as pe...Welcome to blogsville<BR/>Hmnn this is tricky ooh as per she has kids n all....wil d man release his kids? Wil d divorce b messy n affect them? But like chari said for sanity purpose she needs ta check ouuta thereQube The Wordsmithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01985918344854220183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-12815407775216849272009-03-24T10:17:00.000+01:002009-03-24T10:17:00.000+01:00OMD...the world is headind for the edge of the cli...OMD...the world is headind for the edge of the cliff....I am still shell shocked myself....wow....the only condition for divorce which is infidelity has been fulfilled so for purposes of keeping her sanity she should sign out soonest..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-51934681079825960512009-03-23T11:48:00.000+01:002009-03-23T11:48:00.000+01:00First time on here, welcome to blogvilleI think sh...First time on here, welcome to blogville<BR/><BR/>I think she should definitely leave, she should have left when she first found out. Staying together for the kids sends the wrong message to them. i dont want to leave an epistle in your comments box but I did a <A HREF="http://bachelorsconundrum.blogspot.com/2009/03/i-love-you-but-i-still-like-to-sleep.html" REL="nofollow">post</A> concerning this issue if you want to see what i really thinkscribble,me.freehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14917332513755169815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-32038988279211017092009-03-21T23:46:00.000+01:002009-03-21T23:46:00.000+01:00wow...good God things are happening out there...wow...good God things are happening out there...Afrobabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01418456633732918114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-22113556351847163662009-03-21T18:16:00.000+01:002009-03-21T18:16:00.000+01:00wow, i think she's tried enuf hangin on for 6 year...wow, i think she's tried enuf hangin on for 6 years. Being married and having affairs are not good either, i'ld say she needs to move on; either forgive hubby and make up(assuming he has stopped his housegirls obsession) or leave and continue lifeJayla.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14354554170574648944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6584721953456643454.post-35931016105209593982009-03-21T16:37:00.000+01:002009-03-21T16:37:00.000+01:00Mrs-No-soul, wow. If Tanya wants out, because the ...Mrs-No-soul, wow. If Tanya wants out, because the relationship with her husband and she doesn't want to sleep around, I would get out. <BR/><BR/>I am cut-throat when it comes to these things. I don't know how live a lie. I can live in a hut by the river and be completely happy. Material things means very little to me. And I don't believe in staying for the kids. When we're unhappy it poisons everything and everyone around us.<BR/><BR/>I just want to be happy.<BR/><BR/>But...Where does Tanya stand on those issues?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com